I promise this isn’t a “Go-Have-a-Baby” post that talks about how the greatest thing a human can do is procreate.
I’ve recently come to somewhat believe that. But I won’t be that guy here.
My friend Michael Nauss (@michaelnaussCMT on Twitter) just welcomed his first child into the world – a beautiful baby boy – and I couldn’t be happier for him.
And it got me thinking about all the ways my perspectives on things have changed since becoming a father myself nearly 8 years ago.
The biggest change for me is that I’m only now beginning to fully appreciate the hard work and sacrifice my mother had to go through to raise me and my two younger siblings.
My father left our house and the divorce process began when I was about 7 years old. At that time, my mom was a stay-at-home mom with no source of income. And my dad, while well-intentioned, was pretty much a deadbeat when it came to finances. So she was basically left to fend for herself with no money and no family around to help out. [Read more…]